If everyone could disturb you at will, express their feelings freely, request anything, and occupy your time, then you would lose that important sense of being treasured. A person who is too easy to find gradually becomes unimportant. Don't let anyone approach you at zero cost. There is a kind of permission in this world that is more important than time and money. And this permission can only be controlled by you, which is the permission you give others to enter your life. In our lives, we will meet many people, receive many calls, reply to many messages, and provide others with a lot of understanding, help, support, and comfort. But there will come a moment when you realize that most of the times you feel exhausted is because you are too easily found by others. Some come, some tell you that someone took something, and then some leave. You did not refuse, but you also did not gain respect or gratitude. This means that a person who can approach you at any time is destined to be someone who can be casually consumed, and a person who is too easy to find gradually becomes unimportant.

So, the real value does not lie in exposing oneself for the sake of gaining attention, but rather in consciously choosing to obscure and filter. You don’t need to be open to everyone; you only need to leave a space for those who are persistent. Human nature is such that once you don’t require others to put in effort to have you, you also don’t need them to put in effort to keep you. You proactively elevate the other person and lower the threshold; they will only see you as something easily obtainable. No matter how much you give, it’s not worth as much as their minimal contribution. You must set a threshold, and this threshold is not about power plays or guarding against people, but rather an awakening of your own sovereignty within. So what is the most important right in life? Is it controlling others? It is deciding who can come close to you. You must set a threshold for yourself, a castle with a moat. The moat does not mean rejecting all visitors, but you must ensure that your visitors are worth lowering the drawbridge for. A castle without a moat can be easily trampled, and someone who never sets defenses easily gives up their castle. You need to recognize a problem within yourself: it’s not that you have a good temper, but that you are afraid to set thresholds. It’s not that you are needed, but rather that you are too easily found. Not all calls for help require a response, and protecting oneself is the premise of loving this world and also the premise of loving oneself. Those who truly love you are never afraid of your boundaries. #Alpha 积分系统上线# #加密市场反弹# #加密项目计划#